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Thursday, September 28, 2006

What is LIFE ???

Friends, i am one of the many people who remember this, Coz .... It helps me remember, What LIFE is ???

Beginning:

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember this mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee...

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.When the class began, wordlessly,
he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.They agreed it was.


The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with a unanimous yes.

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand.

The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things -- your God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.

The sand is everything else -- the small stuff."

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
golf balls."

The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

Take care of the golf balls first -- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.

"I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."


I really want you to get this thing through your hearts.

I thought to share this with someone i care about. I think I JUST DID IT.

Why do MEN admire woman???

Know the answer, friends???

I think the following will answer the above doubt.

Men admire woman NOT just Coz they are beautiful but because....

You can feel her INNOCENCE in the form of a Daughter....


You can feel her CARE in the form of a Sister....


You can feel her WARMTH in the form of a friend....


You can feel her PASSION in the form of a Beloved....


You can feel her DEDICATION in the form of a wife....


You can feel her DIVINITY in the form of a loving mother....


You can feel her BLESSINGS in the form of Grand mother....


Her heart is so Tender, so Naughty, so Charming.... And Yet she is so tough too...

Last but not the least

Men admire and respect women because

SHE is the reason for our very own existance....

SHE GIVES LIFE and

SHE IS LIFE.



I really loved this. What do you say???

Friday, September 15, 2006

Differentiate Love and Friendship!

The difference between love and friendship can be loosely given as follows.


An ETERNAL-LOVER, typically, says
"Without you, I can't LIVE".

But a typical friend, ALWAYS, says
"U must LIVE, I am with you".


Apart from the change in the order of words, there is a whole world's difference in the lines above.

If the difference is clear, NOW, DO NOT mail me asking the difference.

In other case, you don't need to know the difference. As simple as that.

Choice...

My collegue Anila sent me this. I think it is true to anyone.


Always choose WHAT YOU LOVE
And Always Love your choice.

I chose to be your friend
And I love the choice i made,
You as my most adorable friend.


I think people should feel this deep in their heart even to say it back again.

Don't spoil...

Another good one from Mayank.


Don't spoil
What you have now,
By desiring what you don't have.

B'Coz,
What you have now,
Is one of the many things,
You once desired for.

Be happy ALWAYS.
Unhappy Life is a Dead Life.


Last two lines are from me. Thought they would complete the above lines.

Petals...

A simple beauty, this is.

I hope U Njoy it.



Petal by petal n Leaf by leaf,
Thats how a tiny bud blossoms into beautiful ROSE.

Word by word n Day by day,
This is the way FRIENDSHIP grows.



But my friend said 'PLEASE, LEAVE ME ALONE' to me. As i love my friend, i did what my friend wanted from me.

I left HER; but NOT ALONE.

She was always there for me and i STILL think she is (and will be) there for me forever, even after she is engaged.

I strongly DO NOT feel that married girls should NOT have (male, NOT boy) friends. I think U got me right.

Most beautiful thing...

A friend of mine, in the PG i stay, sent this to me. I think it is correct and i realized that, this is what i have done till date. You may agree or not to this. Read on...

The Most Beautiful thing is
To do anything possible
To see a person smiling.

And even more beautiful thing is
Knowing that YOU ARE
the REASON behind it.

Be a reason 4 someone 2 smile!

Really try be a REASON...

Watch your thoughts!!!


Watch your thoughts ;
They become Words.

Watch your words ;
They become Actions.

Watch your actions ;
They become Habits.

Watch your habits;
They become Character.

Watch your character;
It becomes your Destiny
.


I think many people fail to realize and follow this simple TURTH;
B'Coz, having clear thoughts is an impossible task for many B'Coz they already know that their thoughts are not GOOD.

I think many fail at the first step itself. Watch your thoughts.

Anything u have, to say?

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Faith...

Hope makes
all things HEAVEN.

Faith makes
all things POSSIBLE.

Love makes
all things BEAUTIFUL.

I wish U get all 3 in every second of your (married) life.



A simple thank-you to my friend, Dhanya.

Distance...

My friends have sent me these as SMSs. I liked them very much; So they are here 4 you to Njoy.


Distance does not matter,
When memories are sweet &
Friends are not forgotten,
When they remain in heart.



My friendship is NOT a MOON,
NOT a SUN, Not even a STAR,
B'coz, they all disappear
Sometime or the other in a single day,

My friendship is like the SKY,
That will always be there,
Watching U forever.



Friendship is just like a violin;
Music may stop now-n-then.
But strings stay attached.

Even U be in touch or NOT,
U are always remembered...



Many people with many words tried to, (actually!) define FRIENDSHIP and LOVE. I agree with most of them. What about U, friend?

Sunday, September 10, 2006

Reth pe...

A couple of short-shayaris from a friend...


About Friendship!

Reth pe naam kabhi likthe nahin...

Reth pe naam kabhi likthe nahin...

Tum hame pathar dil tho keh diya,

Par pathar pe likhe naam, kabhi mit tey nahin.

About Friendship again!

Asmaan may sitaare hai bahut,

Magar uske liye, Chand sirf ek.

Hum jaise dost aap ke liye hazaar,

Magar aap jaise dost hamaare liye sirf ek.


These two are cute.Thanks Rekha.

Thursday, September 07, 2006

You Love...

A forward being forwarded...

But be informed that this is NOT a timepass.

In many cases, this is TRUE.


"U love someone


U marry someone else.


The one u marry


becomes ur wife or husband.


And the one u loved


becomes the password


of ur mail id"


This do not stop here. U know where it will (and CAN) go!!!

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

GUY...

Two weeks back, i blogged about what a girl has (REALLY, that is) in her heart. A similar effort this time with the other sex.

When a GUY is quiet and is alone,
He's is thinking how good the times were when you're around!!!

When a GUY kept asking you the same question,
He is wondering why you are lying and NOT being open to him.

When a GUY calls you everyday,
He is really missing You and wants your attention.

When a GUY wants to see you everyday,
He cares for you and want to know how are you, today.

When a GUY sms's u everyday,
He wants you to know that he is fine.

When a GUY says "I Miss You",
He wants to see you immeditely.

When a GUY answers "I'm Fine" after awhile,
He is NOT and feeling hurt.

When a GUY looks at you in your eyes,
He wants to tell you how much he loves you
And how important you're to him.

When a GUY is lying on his bed,
He is thinking deeply why he loves you.

When a GUY says I love you,
He really cares for you and really meant it.

When a GUY hugs you while sleeping,
He is wishing that you belong to him, forever.

When a GUY says that he can't live without you,
He has made up his mind that you are his future wife.



Frankly speaking, it doesn't actually matter, what a GUY has in his heart; He will, most probably, reflect the same feelings, WHEN he is with the GIRL he loves (or even likes).

Agree not?

Tell me Y?