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Sunday, December 10, 2006
LISTEN TO OTHERS (Do we???)
Our personality helps us form relationships. That is the easy part. The hard part is to maintain. It requires having to understand the other person, his/her feelings, thoughts and actions.
When we feel understood,we trust the person. We trust them, not only with our secrets and private information, but also with our feelings.
Most of the time, focusing on our own expectations, we try to persuade another to do what we want. This we start doing, once the relationship deepens. And that is the beginning of the end. This leads to frustration and bitterness in relationship.
Instead, we must try to understand what the other person wants, and then try to help them achieve it. The depth of any relationship depends upon how special, valued, cherished and happy we feel in it. When we focus on how much we are contributing, rather than how much we are gaining, it will open our eyes and ears to the needs of the other.
Establishing trust is about listening and understand - not necessarily agreeing or even approving. That is, we have to listen without making judgements about the other person's personality.
Accept the person as they are. With all his/her positives AND NEGETIVES.
Not my own verses! But Interpretation is mine. Hope you got the point.
Do you want the key to every heart.....?
Leave a trail...
Do not go where
the path may lead!
Instead go to where
there is no path
.... and leave a trail!!!
Monday, December 04, 2006
Remember me!!!
Remember to remember me!
Forget to forget me!!
Even if you remember to forget me,
I will Never forget to remind you,
To remember me!!!
Every Second God remembers you.
Every Minute God follows you.
Every Hour God saves you.
B'coz, everyday i pray to God
To take good care of my friend!!!
Friendship means...
To Help without 'Hesitation'
To Give without 'Expectation'
To Love without 'Limitation'
And To Remember
Even without 'Communication'
Friends are like Fish.
U have to sit patiently
4 a longtime 2 catch a nice 1.
Just like, i caught U!!!
Better stay nice with me or i'll fry you and Eat!!! Ummmm!!!
Feeling OK, Now???
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Heart!
Don't get nervous.
Just close your eyes,
And follow your Heart.
B'Coz,
Our Heart may be in LEFT side,
But it's always RIGHT!!!
You gotta say yeah to this. What say?
The other (our) kind of compilation!
Some of the BEST moments in Life;
Lying in Bed, lazily
Listening to the raindrops outside the window.
Taking a long walk on a calm road
Thinking about the person you love.
Finding money in your old jeans,
Just when you needed it.
Holding hands with your friends,
Giggling naughtily.
Getting a hug from someone,
You love.
The moment your eyes are filled are filled with tears,
After a big laugh.
Wish you all these beautiful moments and more
All throughout your life.
Thanks Sunil.
Which one is Loooooonger???
Someone asked me,
for how long will you both be Friends.
I remained silent.
B'Coz i didn't know which one is Loooooonger,
Always or Forever.
Thanks very much bujji, for having such a splendid opinion about me.
Saturday, October 14, 2006
When U Close Your Eyes...
People, Enjoy.
When you close your eyes,
I will be the darkness
When you open them,
I will be the light
When you walk away from me
I will be a part of your shadow
When you are coming to me,
I will be the smile on your face
When you are really upset,
I will be the awaiting happiness at the end
When you are very happy
I will be the laziest second which don’t want to leave you
When you are someone else
I would be the person who loves that ‘someone else’
When you are You
I ll be Me, Myself
Thanks Friend.
Thursday, September 28, 2006
What is LIFE ???
Beginning:
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember this mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee...
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things -- your God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.
The sand is everything else -- the small stuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
golf balls."
The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
Take care of the golf balls first -- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
"I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
I really want you to get this thing through your hearts.
I thought to share this with someone i care about. I think I JUST DID IT.
Why do MEN admire woman???
I think the following will answer the above doubt.
Men admire woman NOT just Coz they are beautiful but because....
You can feel her INNOCENCE in the form of a Daughter....
You can feel her CARE in the form of a Sister....
You can feel her WARMTH in the form of a friend....
You can feel her PASSION in the form of a Beloved....
You can feel her DEDICATION in the form of a wife....
You can feel her DIVINITY in the form of a loving mother....
You can feel her BLESSINGS in the form of Grand mother....
Her heart is so Tender, so Naughty, so Charming.... And Yet she is so tough too...
Last but not the least
Men admire and respect women because
SHE is the reason for our very own existance....
SHE GIVES LIFE and
SHE IS LIFE.
I really loved this. What do you say???
Friday, September 15, 2006
Differentiate Love and Friendship!
An ETERNAL-LOVER, typically, says
"Without you, I can't LIVE".
But a typical friend, ALWAYS, says
"U must LIVE, I am with you".
Apart from the change in the order of words, there is a whole world's difference in the lines above.
If the difference is clear, NOW, DO NOT mail me asking the difference.
In other case, you don't need to know the difference. As simple as that.
Choice...
Always choose WHAT YOU LOVE
And Always Love your choice.
I chose to be your friend
And I love the choice i made,
You as my most adorable friend.
I think people should feel this deep in their heart even to say it back again.
Don't spoil...
Don't spoil
What you have now,
By desiring what you don't have.
B'Coz,
What you have now,
Is one of the many things,
You once desired for.
Be happy ALWAYS.
Unhappy Life is a Dead Life.
Last two lines are from me. Thought they would complete the above lines.
Petals...
I hope U Njoy it.
Petal by petal n Leaf by leaf,
Thats how a tiny bud blossoms into beautiful ROSE.
Word by word n Day by day,
This is the way FRIENDSHIP grows.
But my friend said 'PLEASE, LEAVE ME ALONE' to me. As i love my friend, i did what my friend wanted from me.
I left HER; but NOT ALONE.
She was always there for me and i STILL think she is (and will be) there for me forever, even after she is engaged.
I strongly DO NOT feel that married girls should NOT have (male, NOT boy) friends. I think U got me right.
Most beautiful thing...
The Most Beautiful thing is
To do anything possible
To see a person smiling.
And even more beautiful thing is
Knowing that YOU ARE
the REASON behind it.
Be a reason 4 someone 2 smile!
Really try be a REASON...
Watch your thoughts!!!
Watch your thoughts ;
They become Words.
Watch your words ;
They become Actions.
Watch your actions ;
They become Habits.
Watch your habits;
They become Character.
Watch your character;
It becomes your Destiny.
I think many people fail to realize and follow this simple TURTH;
B'Coz, having clear thoughts is an impossible task for many B'Coz they already know that their thoughts are not GOOD.
I think many fail at the first step itself. Watch your thoughts.
Anything u have, to say?
Wednesday, September 13, 2006
Faith...
all things HEAVEN.
Faith makes
all things POSSIBLE.
Love makes
all things BEAUTIFUL.
I wish U get all 3 in every second of your (married) life.
A simple thank-you to my friend, Dhanya.
Distance...
Distance does not matter,
When memories are sweet &
Friends are not forgotten,
When they remain in heart.
My friendship is NOT a MOON,
NOT a SUN, Not even a STAR,
B'coz, they all disappear
Sometime or the other in a single day,
My friendship is like the SKY,
That will always be there,
Watching U forever.
Friendship is just like a violin;
Music may stop now-n-then.
But strings stay attached.
Even U be in touch or NOT,
U are always remembered...
Many people with many words tried to, (actually!) define FRIENDSHIP and LOVE. I agree with most of them. What about U, friend?
Sunday, September 10, 2006
Reth pe...
About Friendship!
Reth pe naam kabhi likthe nahin...
Reth pe naam kabhi likthe nahin...
Tum hame pathar dil tho keh diya,
Par pathar pe likhe naam, kabhi mit tey nahin.
About Friendship again!
Asmaan may sitaare hai bahut,
Magar uske liye, Chand sirf ek.
Hum jaise dost aap ke liye hazaar,
Magar aap jaise dost hamaare liye sirf ek.
These two are cute.Thanks Rekha.
Thursday, September 07, 2006
You Love...
But be informed that this is NOT a timepass.
In many cases, this is TRUE.
"U love someone
U marry someone else.
The one u marry
becomes ur wife or husband.
And the one u loved
becomes the password
of ur mail id"
This do not stop here. U know where it will (and CAN) go!!!
Wednesday, September 06, 2006
GUY...
When a GUY is quiet and is alone,
He's is thinking how good the times were when you're around!!!
When a GUY kept asking you the same question,
He is wondering why you are lying and NOT being open to him.
When a GUY calls you everyday,
He is really missing You and wants your attention.
When a GUY wants to see you everyday,
He cares for you and want to know how are you, today.
When a GUY sms's u everyday,
He wants you to know that he is fine.
When a GUY says "I Miss You",
He wants to see you immeditely.
When a GUY answers "I'm Fine" after awhile,
He is NOT and feeling hurt.
When a GUY looks at you in your eyes,
He wants to tell you how much he loves you
And how important you're to him.
When a GUY is lying on his bed,
He is thinking deeply why he loves you.
When a GUY says I love you,
He really cares for you and really meant it.
When a GUY hugs you while sleeping,
He is wishing that you belong to him, forever.
When a GUY says that he can't live without you,
He has made up his mind that you are his future wife.
Frankly speaking, it doesn't actually matter, what a GUY has in his heart; He will, most probably, reflect the same feelings, WHEN he is with the GIRL he loves (or even likes).
Agree not?
Tell me Y?
Monday, August 28, 2006
10 Words...
The most selfish 1-letter word is
' I ' - Avoid it.
The most satisfactory 2-letter word is
' WE ' - Use it.
The most poisonous 3-letter word is
' EGO ' - Kill it.
The most used 4-letter word is
' LOVE ' - Value it.
The most pleasing 5-letter word is
' SMILE ' - Keep it.
The most spreading 6-letter word is
' RUMOUR ' - Ignore it.
The most hardworking 7-letter word is
' SUCCESS ' - Achieve it.
The most enviable 8-letter word is
' JEALOUSY ' - Distance it.
The most powerful 9-letter word is
' KNOWLEDGE ' - Acquire it.
The most divine 10-letter word is
' FRIENDSHIP ' - Maintain it, till you die.
After death, anyway, your friendship will live.
Thanks very much Anila, for sending such wonderful message to me. I wish whoever reads this will agree with you, too.
Think...
Read "Slowly"
Talk "Simply"
Think "Gently"
Laugh "Loudly"
Work "Hardly"
Feel "Freely"
Love "Sincerely"
Friends, take these things to your minds. They are good.
Love... Friendship...
But the relation between heart and heart beat is called FRIENDSHIP....!
I do not think the above is false. Any other opinions???
Tears...
Tears are more precious than Smiles
Coz, we can smile at anybody, even strangers...
But Tears are shed only 4 those whom
We can't afford 2 lose in life...
Thanks Rekha. I hope this would work on someone i love.
Thursday, August 24, 2006
You are judged...
"You are judged not by the height you have risen, but from the depth you have climbed..."
- Unknown to me.
Wednesday, August 23, 2006
Rain...
Do u, too?
Girl...
When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply.
When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind.
When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying.
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions,
She is wondering how long you will be around.
When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,
She is not at all fine.
When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it.
and
When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more than her.
And i think this is true in case of most of the girls.
I do hope (and wish) my friend also feels the same.
-- To my lovely friend and to all girls with beautiful hearts (beautiful faces, as well)
Wednesday, June 07, 2006
Classic Definitions !!!
These may not be exactly Quotes but i think these will fit in here.
Go ahead and Njoy them.
1. Cigarette : A pinch of tobacco rolled in paper with fire at one end & a fool at the other.
2. Love affairs : Something like cricket where one-day internationals are more popular than a five day test.
3. Marriage : It's an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degree and a woman gains her master
4. Divorce : Future tense of marriage
5. Lecture : An art of transferring information from the notes of the lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through "the minds of either".
6. Conference : The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present.
7. Compromise : The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybody believes he got the biggest piece.
8. Tears : The hydraulic force by which masculine will-power is defeated by feminine water-power.
9. Dictionary : A place where divorce comes before marriage.
10. Conf Room : A place where everybody talks, nobody listens & everybody disagreeslater on.
11. Ecstasy : A feeling when you feel you are going to feel a feeling you have never felt before.
12. Classic : A book which people praise, but do not read.
13. Smile : A curve that can set a lot of things straight.
14. Office : A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.
15. Yawn : The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth.
16. Etc. : A sign to make others believe that you know more than you actually do.
17. Committee: Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.
18. Experience : The name men give to their mistakes.
19. Atom Bomb: An invention to end all inventions.
20. Philosopher : A fool who torments himself during life, to be spoken of when dead.
21. Diplomat : A person who tells you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip.
22. Opportunist : A person who starts taking bath if he accidentally falls into a river.
23. Optimist : A person who while falling from
injured yet."
24. Pessimist :- A person who says that O is the last letter in ZERO, Instead of the first letter in word
25. Miser : A person who lives poor so that he can die rich.
26. Father : A banker provided by nature.
27. Criminal : A guy no different from the rest... except that he got caught.
28. Boss : Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early.
29. Politician : One who shakes your hand before elections and your Confidence after.
30. Doctor : A person who kills your ills by pills, and kills you with his bills.
31. Computer Engineer : One who gets paid for reading such mails......
Please do send in your contributions too...
You can use the Comments for this purpose.
Tuesday, May 09, 2006
Just a thought!
What hurts u the most?
Being hurt by someone u trust a lot
OR
being trusted by someone u have hurt a lot!
Open up your heart and try finding the answer!!
Lovers!!!
U come & leave things behind!
See now, what u have left!
U just came in my mind &
left a SMILE on MY face.
Friends!!
is someone who sees the pain in your eyes
while
EVERYONE ELSE still believe in the smile on your face..
Say NO to the above?
Then what do you have to say about these..
Leave SOMETHING for a friend..
Never Leave a FRIEND for something..
B'coz in life, SOMETHINGS will leave you
but FRIENDS will always be with u..
Old friends are gold..!
New friends are diamonds!
If u get diamond
dont forget the gold,
B'coz to hold a diamond
u need a base of gold.
Have something similar to these??
Send it to me, please!!
What Lovers DO!!! (A - Z)
B - Be best friends
C - Compromise
D - Discover new things together
E - Encourage each other
F - Forgive and forget
G - Gaze into each others eyes
H - Hold hands and hug a lot
I - Inspire and intrigue each other
J - Joke and laugh and have fun
K - Kiss Kiss Kiss ;-)
L - Love with all your hearts
M - Marvel at each other's talents
N - Nuture each other's soul
O - Overcome problem together
P - Play games
Q - Quiet each other's fears
R - Remember the little things
S - Say "I love you" everyday
T - Take time for tenderness
U - Understand and care deeply
V - Value everything you share
W - Wish on stars together
X - X-press your true feelings
Y - Yearn for each other's touch
Z - Zzzzz in each other's arm
The 'BE' Attitudes
BE loyal to your friends.
BE strong enough to face the world each day.
BE weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.
BE generous to those who need your help.
BE frugal with that you need yourself.
BE wise enough to know that you do not know everything.
BE foolish enough to Believe in miracles.
BE willing to share your joys.
BE willing to share the sorrows of others.
BE a leader when you see a path others have missed.
BE a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.
BE first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.
BE last to criticize a colleague who fails.
BE sure where your next step will fall, so that you will not tumble.
BE sure of your final destination, in case you are going the wrong way.
BE loving to those who love you.
BE loving to those who do not love you; they may change.
Above all, BE yourself.
Howzzz that people??
Liked it, Good to know that you BE yourself at the end of the story.
Simply SMS!
Here, I have a few, for all of you.
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Dost kaha ho?
Jaha ho
wahi pe rehna.
3-4 ghante tak
bahar mat nikalna.
Tumhari
jaan ko
khatra hai!
Kyon ki,
Bahar
BANDAR pakadne wale
ghoom rahe hai!!
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Tu chand mange
main chand de du...
Tu raat mange
main raat de du...
Tu dil mange
main dil de du...
Tu jaan mange...
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Bas yaar.....
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.Bheek mangne ki bhi ek limit hoti hai!!
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Tere bistar par
makdee lage..
Tere room mei
muchchar phire..
Raat ko
light chali jaye..
Puri raat
garmi lage..
Tere sapne mein
bhoot aaye..
Chal so jaa.
Have a.. GOOD NIGHT!@!
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Tuesday, April 25, 2006
Life is...
Life is not a bed of roses;
Nor is it a ditch of thorns.
It is a simple realization;
Every rose comes with its own thorns.
Another fact is here..
Life means Missing Expected Things & Facing Unexpected Things.
When you are right, No one remembers you
but when you are wrong, no one forgets!
A beautiful girl (to my eyes and heart) had written these simple words on a book that she presented to me on my B'Day, almost 6 loooong years back.
The book is still with me and in book condition.
I know, if she ever reads this, that she will tell that "the point is NOT if the book is with me NOR the condition, but whether i have READ the contents of the book".
I should answer in affirmitive to the above question.
This blog will chronicle many quotes from various sources.
So, i am in NO WAY the originator of these gem-of-the-words but someone just trying to put these in one place.
I hope this initiative will be appreciated.